How To Pick Up Women

Becoming unconsciously competent at seducing women is an important part of becoming a man. If you do not develop this skill, you are likely to watch some other guy walk up to someone who could have been your girlfriend, and steal her from you.

Seducing a woman is all about how you make her FEEL by way of your actions, behavior and personality.

Are you a quiet, shy guy who always says nice things to women? Do you pretend not be interested in having sex with her? If so, then you will NOT make her experience feelings of attraction that will lead to seduction.

The most relaxed way to begin seducing a woman and make her feel strong feelings of attraction that will seduce her into having sex with you, is to FLIRT with her.

A mistake most guys make is to show niceness to women. When it comes to showing sexual interest, they are intimidated likely in fear of being rejected. Unfortunately, this sends signals to women that you don’t like them sexually. They then assume that you either:

1. Are too scared to show sexual interest, or;

2. Do not see her in that way.

As mentioned before, to show sexual interest and seduce a woman, it is best to FLIRT. What is flirting? Here is an example of how to seduce a woman with your flirting:

If you are having a conversation with a woman in a coffee shop, punctuate your expression with a devilish smirk. You can also squint your eyes when she’s talking to you. Do this every few minutes. This is much better than having a nice, innocent expression.

Trust me, she will know EXACTLY what you mean. Because women understand body language, she will flirt back at you possibly with a bite of the lip or a shy smile.

Okay, so now that you know that flirting is a fundamental technique used in seducing women, read some more quick tips on how to seduce a woman:

1. Be confident and act Alpha-ish;

2. Use humor;

3. Make interesting conversation and tease her.

Once you have generated sexual attraction in her, you are ready to use the Hug Technique for speeding things up. The best time to use it after she tells you a sad story or at the end of the date when you are both parting ways.

Basically say, “Thanks, bye now”, and pretend to walk away. But then turn, tell her, “come here”, and give her a hug for 3-5 seconds.

After the brief, innocent hug, pull back a little, smile and casually look her in the eyes to observe her reaction. If she looks at you, smiles and holds eye contact for a few seconds with you – she wants you to kiss her. If she pulls away and avoids eye contact, do not try to kiss her.