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I want my ex husband back…we were together for 12 years…he now has a girlfriend and I am now remarried…I know I still love him…..I want him back and he even told me the other day that he still has love for me that he wont EVER have for her….wemet privatly to discuss our children and some concerns we have with the…..how do I get him to talk to me without talking about the kids and without her around? she is very insecure and listens to all his conversations ..
one last detail his girlfriend is pregnant
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It sounds as though she has a reason to listen where you are involved. So I wouldn’t say she is insecure, I think she can see right through you. You need to realize that he is NOT yours anymore and you are not his. You remarried I think you suffer from the grass is greener mentality and you will never be happy with anyone until you are happy with yourself.
I wish I got the feeling that you were kidding around here…………. but for some reason I think you are telling the truth. Its just all so “Jerry Springer” you know?
The long and the short of it is that you both failed your kids…. now you are talking about messing up the home life of yet another child.
You divorced originally… you re-married…. he got another woman pregnant…. but NOW you want to get back together?
I think its nice when parents can meet to discuss their kids… the same kids that they didn’t worry about when they broke up their home. At least you’re trying. But enough already. I think your feelings for your ex are caused by something else. Are you jealous that he’s having another child? Are things not going well with your new husband?
Let this go……….. focus on being a good mom…. focus on being a good wife…. let your ex go back to being whatever it is that he does. You will all be happier this way.
don’t be a home wrecker. find another man! how do you know he won’t be back with her when he leaves her for you telling her the same thing? if he can’t be faithful with her why do you think he will be with you?
make sure that you’re both feelings are for real….or maybe just lust because you we’re not physically been together for a long time…
PRAY and GOD will give you signs….
Whenever I hear stories like this, the first thing I think is, “Isn’t he your ex for a reason?”
Women have intuition. She is insecure, because she knows you are trying to get her man. She is not insecure as a character flaw. If I knew there was a woman out to get my man, I’d be the same way. You need to get over him. After all you remarried. You’re just dishing out hurt everywhere and potential hurt in the future. Get over yourself and do the right thing for others for a change.
How could you ever want your EX back? Seems sorta foolish if you never loved them…………..
let’s see you guys fouled up your life together and now you’d like to ruin two more that’s just great .keep up the good work.
Please don’t do this. Really, please don’t. Please try to work it out with your husband. Please read this book together (link attached).
You are not getting something out of the marriage. You can get what you want and be happy. Or you can at least try. His new child doesnt deserve to have his/her family break up.
Doesn’t anyone read the Bible anymore? Or believe what it says?
Can I thump you for a moment? Look, God has a design for marriage and relationships. And even if you think I’m on crack, and don’t believe in Him, I’m begging you to at least look into what God designed marriage to be. It is a great thing, unfortunatly many times people expect that it’s going to be easy, it’s NOT GOING TO BE. It’s the hardest relationship you will have. It’s the hardest to keep!
Look, I’m not going to get all ‘scripture in your face here’ but at the least, please just go google (or yahoo) what God expects of your marriage and what your role should be and what his role should be in it. It makes sense even if you don’t believe in Him.
I wish you the best of luck, I really do. I am seriously ill with the fact that marriage in this world has gone to shit. Completely gone to shit. I’m mourning the loss of my own, and I wish I could mourn the loss of everyones marriage on my own back if it would just help people stay together.
As I watch my 2 year old daughter play with dancing dora and my 6 year old daughter play with flutter ponys, I hope that you can really understand what it best for all the children (this includes you thinking about his unborn child, I know it sucks, but you have to). Think of the kids. This is real life with real emotions and real children.
Sorry for the Bible thumping. But it is my rulebook.
live your new life and leave him alone ,it seems he is happy with her gf..i am sorry about you
When the kids are at your house but gone somewhere like a sleep over or something, have him come over to fix something or to talk. Wear a trench coat with nothing but stockings underneath. Open your coat and start kissing him and breathing heavily. Let nature take it from there and tell him you want him back permanently.
HE’S YOUR EX???? EX, LEAVE HIM ALONE YOUR MARRIED NOW IF YOU WANT HIM BACK THEN GET A DIVORCE THEN DO WHAT U NEED TO DO, PUT UNTIL YOU ARE DIVORCE, THEN WHAT YOU ARE DOING IS CHEATING ON YOUR HUSBAND NOW THIS IS NOT FAIR TO HIM. SO BEFORE YOU HURT HIM EVEN MORE DO IT THE RIGHT WAY STEP BY STEP, AND IF YOUR EX ISN’T MARRIED WHEN YOU ARE DIVORCE THEN ALL IS FAIR.
I’m not sure what you can do at this point but, I have to wonder why you moved so quickly into another marriage. You do not state why you both divorced- were you seeing your now husband while still in the marriage? This relationship pretty much sounds like a rebound & now you are having second thoughts about what could of been with your ex. You are the only one that can decide what you want to do about your feelings & whatever you decide will undoubtedly cause pain & hurt for someone. You may still love your ex & he may still love you but, that is not a guarantee that you both could make it work again. Your ex may not feel the same love for his gf that he had with you but, maybe that is because he chose to be with someone not well suited to him. Yes, you both share children & yes, that would be the ideal situation for you both to be back together as a family again but, that does not take away from the fact that you both felt you could not work things out so moved on & made other choices with your lives. You stated that you both met privately before so I’m sure there is a way to meet privately again. Just keep in mind that you both could be feeling this way towards each other because you are not happy in your present situations. If the problems that broke up your marriage are still there no amount of love will change that unless these problems can be resolved- you will both be back where you started from. If you truely love your ex & want to be back with him you first need to be honest with your feelings for your husband- it is not fair to him to be going behind his back plotting to get back with your ex. Your ex’s gf is probably insecure because she knows that his feelings for her are not genuine- he too, should be honest with her. Do not make anymore hasty decisions based only on the fact that you both do not truely feel the same love for your present partners. Think of your children & what this will mean to them with all this chaos going on in their lives- they will ultimately be the ones to pay the price. Take care & good luck!
I feel really sorry for your husband. He doesn’t deserve the scurvy stuff that you’re trying to pull behind his back. And, you’re not even being honest with him about anything- did you marry him only to make the ex jealous?
Leave your ex husband alone. You have no claim to him anymore, your children are not pawns, and you’ll only do more damage to them in the long run. You should be encouraging your children to embrace your ex’s new woman.. but with your twisted perception of things, I’d venture to guess that you spew alot of venom around your children. Get some therapy, lady!! And quick!